My life has been great, wonderful family, friends and relatives. Life has a way of waking you up one fine morning and rocking your boat so hard that you realize how much pain a loved one can cause. Well caused me lot of pain, and in turn caused pain to others. Well, I hope I learned my lesson from that experience, that people around you behave a certain way and one cannot change that. The anger, sadness, pain is all manifestation of how you perceive it. Since you have no control over behavior of others, no point in fretting about it. The pain, happiness, sadness, jealousy, hatred all is within you and you need to let them go to be truly blissful, irrespective of how others around you behave.
Also, people you love are also human beings, they interact with other people, feel emotions and feelings which you cannot control. I am slowly learning to let go and have realized that more attachments cause more pain. I am starting to follow philosophy of love everyone, do not point out mistakes in others and put others down, who am I to do that. I have my own shares of idiosyncrasies. You cannot rectify anyone nor should you try to.. They have to realize on their own. All I can do is to see how I can improve and be a better person in my mind and in the mind of others.....
Also, people you love are also human beings, they interact with other people, feel emotions and feelings which you cannot control. I am slowly learning to let go and have realized that more attachments cause more pain. I am starting to follow philosophy of love everyone, do not point out mistakes in others and put others down, who am I to do that. I have my own shares of idiosyncrasies. You cannot rectify anyone nor should you try to.. They have to realize on their own. All I can do is to see how I can improve and be a better person in my mind and in the mind of others.....
